If everything is rolling fine for you, if you are fully satisfied with your life, then this post series is not for you. But if you’re not happy with where you are right now, if you still feel that you are missing something, or that there’re few items you’d like to manifest in your life, then, this is for you.
This is going to be a 3 part series that’s going to rock!
First Things you Need to Know for your Affirmations to Work
When I first learned about the importance of affirmations, one thing that I wasn’t specified, which was omitted by the coach, was that it ONLY works when you start believing in such affirmations.
The reason why so many people say that affirmations don’t work, is due to the fact that they don’t truly believe their affirmations. Sorry, it doesn’t work that way.
For affirmations to work, you need to have the following in place:
- You create an affirmation about something you do not yet have.
- Your repeat that affirmation over and over with feelings that will induce the belief that it’s already here.
- Eventually your affirmation will get into your subconscious mine.
- Once it’s there, it’s only a matter of time to become a physical reality.
This is the formula for affirmations that work, but for the most part, the problem lies with inducing and checking on our true feelings.
Unfortunately, even if you repeat an affirmation over and over with an opposite feeling than the one you’re affirming, it won’t work. The simple reason why it won’t is because it’s not penetrating the subconscious mind for as long as you don’t truly believe it.
An affirmation that you can’t manage to believe will NEVER work. It’s that simple.
Is our Subconscious Mind Stubborn?
Have you ever wondered how things penetrate your subconscious mind so easily when you’re a child while it takes so much work for an adult? It’s because of two things.
1) Small children are actually reacting more subconsciously than they are consciously. That’s why 99 percent of our subconscious programming happens before we reach the age of 16.
2) Small children’s subconscious doesn’t have any programming or not enough programming yet to prevent new information to get in.
As adults we have so much stuff stuck in there, that’s actually literally blocking new information and ideas to get in.
It’s like learning a new language. Have you ever observed a child learning a foreign language? Like a breeze.
I remember once, a little cousin of mine had spent 3 weeks in Spain with her grandmother, and she came back speaking Spanish like it was a mother tongue. She actually had a hard time speaking French. It was so funny. Her mother was saying, boy she’s speaking Spanish to me now!
Something like that would most likely never happen to an adult, because as we grow older our mind becomes more ridge, so to speak. We get into the habit of living too much on consciousness and not enough on subconsciousness. Since children live the other way around, they absorb things much easier. Good or bad.
Since we can’t go back into childhood, we must find a way, to erase all the negative programming and replace it by the positive ones, as easily as a child would. But how?
Negative Programming Exposed
When you consult with a life coach, or get involved in personal development you come to realize how much negative stuff is in your head. For sure it’s worse for some people than others, but nonetheless, unless you grew up in a perfect environment it’s bound to happen to some degree.
In my case, personal development showed me that my subconscious mind was affected negatively to a LARGE degree. And we’re talking about someone who grew up in a loving family with a loving mother that never hurt me in anyway intentionally. But there are still other factors out there that can affect the subconscious of a child.
Now imagine those who haven’t grown up in a loving family?
So, the point is that for most people who are walking around on this planet, their subconscious mind needs help and repair. Big time. But even when they come to this realization, they don’t know how to fix it. Then they hear about doing affirmations, but they realize that it doesn’t work.
So, what is the best way to get rid of the bad subconscious data and replace it by the good one, so you can start living the life that you’ve always dreamed of?
Destroy the Bad Programming with Kindness
Do you know how vaccination works?
Vaccines work by mimicking disease agents and stimulating the immune system to build up defenses against them.
The immune system responds to the vaccination in such a way that protects the body from a specific disease in the future. It works the same as when you actually had the disease once and are now immunized against getting that specific disease or specific virus ever again.
In other words, you prevent a disease by a simulation of it or by the disease itself. You’re killing the virus with kindness, so to speak, right? You give it in a minute amount to the body and it cures it.
In order to make your affirmation work, you need to apply that same principle.
Don’t worry, if you’re still confuse now, you be for long. Just bear with me.
Over my years of having practiced so many affirmations in so many different ways, I came to the conclusion that there is ONLY ONE way to cure the bad programming, it’s by first admitting, recognizing and even “loving” the negative bad programming for what it is. Then, and only then, are we able to replace it with one that is positive and good.
I found two super easy and fantastic ways to do this. One has to do with Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT), and the the other with the truth checking using a pendulum.
Gosh, when you’ll learn how to do these two correctly, you’ll be amazed at what is going to start happening in your life.
I have decided to make this topic a series of 3 posts to show you exactly how you can reprogram your old, tough and stubborn subconscious mind.
By the way, if you can’t do it yourself or if you’re not sure you’re doing it right, you can always consult me.
At times I’m even wondering if I’m giving too much top notch coaching tips here, for free, but if you still need help, I want to extend this offer now, because my rates are going to increase, in two weeks.
I can coach you one on one to change your subconscious programming and get results within a month at my present rate.
All you need to do is making reference to this post series in your contact message, and I’ll be sure to give you the lower present rate.
So, in the mean time, be sure to tune in and learn how you can rock an affirmation campaign that WILL bring you results. If you need my help right away, I can do that too!
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