Why Does My Life Suck And How Can I Change It

My Life Suck How Can I Change It

My Life Suck How Can I Change It

What story have you been telling to yourself all these years?

Do you know that the story that you’ve been telling to yourself is the story that unfolds before you very eyes?

I haven’t always known that, but if I had, my life would have been different in many regards.

If the majority of people only started to understand this, there is no way that they’ll intentionally keep doing what they are doing.

The major problem I see though, is that people have no idea that this is what’s happening to them.

Looking back at my childhood, with the knowledge I’ve acquired at this point, I can’t help thinking about my mother.

I can recall every single thing she used to say all the time, and how it just happened to be in her life sooner or later.

It was true for both the positive as well as the negative events in her life.

You see, the law of attraction makes no distinction.

The law of attraction doesn’t care if you are good, bad or indifferent.

If you jump off from a cliff, does the law of gravity won’t hold up if you’re a good person, now will it?

Well, it’s the same thing with all laws of this universe, and the law of attraction included.


God will Reward me if I’m Good Right?

Do all bad people pay for what they do?

Do all good people have a great life?

My mother was THE most giving person I’ve ever met on this planet, yet she died from the most horrible diseases that eats up your brain until you don’t recognize yourself, also called as Alzheimer.

On the other hand, I know of one person who is a crook, a liar, violent, and even a smoker to top it all, and yet he’s perfectly fine and healthy, even making more money now than he had been in a long while, because he used to be wealthy in the past and his subconscious wealthy mind just caught back with him, as it’s usually the case with the subconscious mind.

Some good people don’t end up so great, while some rotten ones live and die in bliss.

Do you have a conflict here?

I mean, if all you do is believe in God without any other understanding of your environment, then you should hit yourself against the walls in confusion, don’t you?

I know for me, if all I understood today is that “there is a God punishing bad people and rewarding good ones” I would be quite confused to say the least.

Please, let me know what you think about that in your comments, but before you do, keep reading.


God Gives you Choices

As long as we are alive and breathing, God gives us choices.

That’s why you could go any direction you wanted and you would be getting the results that you have sown.

The truth of the matter is that there are universal laws that work for any human being, no matter where they are located on this planet and no matter who they call “God.”

That’s why the law of attraction works for everyone and anyone, no matter what.

The same way that the law of gravity is the same for everyone and anyone. Or the fact that if you eat something poisonous it will affect your body whomever you are, regardless of the fact that you’re good, bad or else.


You are Making your Own Life Story

At the end of the day, it all comes down to the story you’ve been telling yourself.

What story have you been telling yourself?

Think about it for a few minutes and tell me that it doesn’t match your life right now, or ever.


If you are honest with yourself, I’m pretty sure that you would admit that what you’ve been telling to yourself over and over every day, week, month and year, has shaped your life and made it what it is today.

Granted, there is that subconscious mind factor that comes into play, but as I’ve written many times before, there are tools and your own conscious mind that you can use to reprogram your subconscious mind.

It’s possible.

I’ve done it, and you can do it too.

So what is your story?

The story you’ve been telling yourself translates in the quality of your life, or the lack thereof.

Any time I want to test the law of attraction, it’s very easy for me, all I have to do is look at my past and even at my close family’s past, and it becomes so obvious to me.

Every corner I’d look, I would see evidenced of the law of attraction, and I’m no longer surprised or asking myself questions about the results that I’ve gotten in the past.

I’ve only gotten what I had been attracting according to the story I was telling myself all the time.

  • If you keep telling yourself the story of being unlucky, you will
  • If you keep telling yourself the story of being broke, you will
  • If you keep telling yourself the story of being unhealthy, you will
  • If you keep relieving all your bad experiences, you will keep on getting negative experiences

You will, because it’s law.

Once you get that, you’ve already made a gigantic step towards recovery.  Some people never even get to that point, you know.

But the next question you’re probably asking is how do I change my story?

You may even wonder if it’s at all possible to do so.

Relax, and keep reading, because, yes, it’s possible to change your story and get different results. Good, positive results from this day forward.


How to Rewrite Your Story

Frist off, I want to let you know, that if you are serious at rewriting your story, but feel like you could use some help in order to do so, I can help.

I’m only an email away, and I give a free introductory consultation to anyone that thinks enough of themselves to give me 30 minutes of their time.

Why coaching is always better than applying the advice on a blog post?

Well, it’s the same as reading a recipe and making the dish, or having it cooked for you in a restaurant.

You may or may not be successful at cooking your dish depending on several different factors:

  • Do you have all the ingredients you need?
  • Do you have a scale to measure the ingredients?
  • Do you have a good working oven or stove?
  • Will you follow the recipe exactly as it’s given to you?
  • Will you put the time an effort?
  • Will you not forget your dish in the over and burn it?

You get my point here, don’t you?

It’s pretty much the same thing with a success recipe on a blog post and you following it or not.

So, if you get that, here is my recipe to help you rewrite your story.


1 – Become Aware

You can’t fix what you can’t see.

This might sound very basic to you, but the number one reason why most people don’t repair their broken life is because they are not even aware it’s broken.

By that I mean that whatever situation they’re in, as bad as it may be, they don’t believe that they can do anything about it, and most of all they don’t believe that they are responsible for it in any way.

Well, I’ve got some news for you.

Whether you know it or not, you are greatly responsible for the life that you are living right now.

But that’s good news, because if you are responsible it means that you can fix it.


2 – Be Open Minded

Being open minded is a MUST for anyone who wants to change his or her life.

Nothing will change if you’re not open minded to start with.


3 – Be Willing to Take Responsibility

Here again, there’s no hope of any change happening at all, if you don’t accept responsibilities even if what has happened to you happened by default.

Accept that you are the one that has the power to change such default just like a computer programmer has the power to change the default programming of a computer.


4 – Write down your New Story

Write down your new story.

For example, you could write down where, what, and how you want to be in 5 years from now.

Write it down with as many details as you can think off. Add details as they come to mind.


5 – Meditate

Use meditation tools or meditate on your own, each day for about 15 minutes at about the same time.

Use this meditation to raise your vibrations, and fill yourself with positive thoughts and emotions.


6 – Whatch your thoughts on an Hourly Basis

Get into the habit of watching your thoughts and let go of negative ones, but without forcing them, just release them.

Let them go, softly and calmly.


7 – Subscribe to my eCourse for More Details

For any questions and comments, please, use the comment area below!

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16 thoughts on “Why Does My Life Suck And How Can I Change It”

  1. Hi Sylviane,

    You are right about all that you mentioned 🙂

    You CAN change things that you wish to change, as the choice lies in your hands (in most of the cases at least). Also, you become what you think, and I do believe in that as well. The process maybe a slow one, but it is a sure one.

    I can understand the part about your mom, and that’s something I’ve also wondered always, as to why bad things happen to good people, while the bad lots continue to live and lead a happy life.

    That’s a lovely video, and I can see you’re loving your trip ALL over, thus the absence from our blogs….lol…but perfectly understandable. Seen the lovely pictures you share on Facebook too – have fun 🙂

    Thanks for sharing. Have a nice week ahead 🙂
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    1. Hi Harleena,

      Yes, I’ve been very bad visiting blogs lately, but this time, just came to yours, commented and shared it 🙂 That was a very interesting subject too.

      Well, the reason why most people don’t understand why bad things happen to good people is that they have NOT yet understood the law of attraction and other laws of the Universe. That’s why I keep writing about it and this is one topic I’ll make my mission of explaining once I’m a known public speaker 🙂 One of the best ways to make people understand is to use the law of gravity, for example. Whether you’re good or bad, if you jump, you’re going to fall the same exact way. It’s the same exact thing with the law of attraction, and that’s why some good people may get bad stuff and some bad ones may get good stuff, depending on what they are attracting according to their “feelings” not to their character. There is so much more in our universe than meets the eyes you know.

      Thank you so much for coming even though I’ve been absent 🙂 Really appreciate that.

  2. Hi Sylviane,

    I sure can resonate with this! Because I’ve been practicing this concept for many years the good stories I tell myself became easier. At first it is difficult and somehow I don’t see people being successful at it doing it alone, but rather with a life coach like you! I didn’t start alone in the beginning years ago.

    Now it is time to tell myself a different story because the last one materialized. It is a process…a journey that keeps on going. My last story was living by the beach and here I am. Also a shift in business and that happened too.

    So what next? Right now I’m making my “list” and creating a movie in my mind for the next phase in life.

    Each time I do it, it always happens because of the Law of Attraction plus the “action” I take. So for anyone who reads this, I can tell ya…it works. And it will work better when doing it with a life coach so you can have clarity.

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    1. Hi Donna,

      Yes, you’ve been practicing those things and seen the results of it, and so did I.

      I’ve been working on my mindset for years, and here I am traveling all over Europe as free as a bird, and every step I take falls into place perfectly because I know that right now things are working for me, because my vibrations are high.

      But I’m also a work in process, always keeping to remind myself of keeping it high 🙂

      Thank you for your input, Donna.

  3. Hi Sylviane,

    You are SO right. What you think about you’ll bring into your life. Even for all of us with the best of intentions and those thoughts of how our lives are right here and now continue to be at the forefront, if you don’t change those thoughts to the way you desire your life to be then it will never change.

    I think that’s why most Christians continue to preach only bible verses to us because that’s what they truly believe. That God is good and he’ll help those who believe in him and are good. Don’t get me wrong, I believe that as well but it’s like anything else in life. We have to do our part to make those things happen. We can’t just rely on him doing all the work.

    Same with our subconscious thoughts. They are always there, playing in our brains whether we’re aware of them or not so unless we change the tape to something else we’ll never move forward.

    That’s why coaches are so very important because most people don’t know how to go about doing this. We need the tools from someone who practices this and has that experience.

    Anyone at any time can change their lives. I hope that anyone eager to do so will get in touch with you and let you help them. They will not regret that move.

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    1. Hi Adrienne,

      Yes, I have myself been well involved in a Christian religion and was able to observe what they do up front and personal for a whole 10 year period. They don’t give people strength, they give people lots of fears, portraying a “human like ” God that watches each of your moves and will reward you accordingly.

      However, if you’re not too blind or too stupid, after a while you start realizing that’s NOT the way it works. So when I turned 40 I just couldn’t buy this anymore, and that’s how I started getting interest and involved with personal development.

      When I started learning about the subconscious mind and the LOA, it was like the veil had been lifted because all the answers that I could NEVER get in religion (any religion) I got them here. Now it all makes sense to me and I even completely understand why my mother got this terrible disease. Why I kept attracting Mr wrong and many other things I had no clue about.

      Your stinking thinking will kill you, no matter what God you believe in. And that I know for sure.

      Thank you for your input, Adrienne.

  4. Hey Sylviane,

    This is a very in-depth and thought provoking article,

    Yes, I agree that good or bad both can happen to both kind of people. God might exist somewhere but expecting everything to workout nicely just because there is God – is a bit too much of a stretch.

    I would like to believe that everything is in our hands and if we can re-program our thought process, much can improve.

    Excellent mention about meditation – both Yoga and Meditation are great for the mind. Thank you for the rest of the tips, will try to incorporate all of it soon.
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    1. Hi Shobha, and so nice to meet you on my blog.

      Yes, as I explained, the fact that there is a God, a superior force above us, doesn’t mean that we win just because we’re good and lose just because we’re bad. As I said in the article, since the law of attraction is PART of God’s Universe and it does affect people, much more than they even start to understand, they still reap what they sow ACCORDING to their thoughts and feelings. In turn, thoughts and feelings send vibrations out to the universe and those vibrations are what comes to you.

      The law of attraction is not always easy to grasp for the novice. I’ve studied it for 9 years now, and I feel that I have pretty darn good understanding of it. My mission is to help others understand it too. No matter what they believe in as long as they have an open mind.

      Thankfully I’m not the only teaching about the LOA, plenty of other coaches do too 🙂

      Thank you for your comment and for coming 🙂

  5. Hi Sylviane,

    I love the video you shared. The place you’re at looks like it’s so peaceful…I would love to get away from the city for a while and soak up nature.

    I agree with you in that what we are thinking is what we will create for ourselves.

    I love the tips you shared to rewrite our story. That is going to be very helpful for anyone who is feels like they’re in a rut right now.

    Thank you for sharing this. I hope you’re having a great time traveling…duh, I’m sure you are :).

    Be safe!

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    1. Hi Corina,

      I’m so glad you liked the video. There’s going to be more and more now that I came out of my North Carolina apartment 🙂

      Yes, the place I was at was very peaceful as many others I’ve been to thus far. I’ve seen so many gorgeous places. I feel so blessed.

      I’m glad you liked my tips, and it is my hope that it will help others for sure.

      Funny you said “be safe” as my post tomorrow will take about “if it’s safe to travel alone 😉 I hope that one will help many people too.

      Yes, I’m have a wonderful time. It’s like a dream 🙂

      Thanks for coming, Corina.

  6. I can identify with a lot of this except the God part… sorry but I’m a non-believer on that front.

    However, I do believe in the laws of attraction. I’ve seen that one work so many times over the years in so many ways, positive and negative, that it has to be true. So many self-fulfilling prophecies that it’s just astounding.

    I’m fairly good on all your points except the meditation part. I’m trying to get into that one more but sometimes I feel guilty taking time away from stuff I should be doing to do so. I guess that’s one I need to get over.
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    1. Hi Mitch,

      That’s OK, this work for both people, whether they do or don’t believe in God. God is just a word that people use as they sense that their is a forth beyond them that exist, and that we can’t deny it. Now how they represent “their” God varies in many different kind of ways and names.

      Exactly, when you’ve seen too many proofs of the action of LOA you can’t deny that it exists. As you said, self-fulfilling prophecies are they to show us. My mother died from Alzheimer, but for at least the previous 10-15 years I heard her say on a regular basis things like “I’m losing my head” or “I’m losing my memory.” Well that sure became a reality for her. It is so important that people start to understand to watch their MOUTH and THOUGHT because however long it will take, it WILL become a reality. I have many more examples I could mention.

      Thank you for coming by and leaving this valuable feedback.

  7. Hi Sylviane,

    Great video and awesome pieces of advice.

    I love the fact that God gives us choices, so we must always choose wisely. Yes, we can believe in God if we wish too but action must start from ourselves. I remember one quote I recently shared in Facebook by Alan Kay: The only way to predict the future is to invent it. And who will invent our future? It’s us.

    If we are stubbornly determined to reach our goals, we’ll get there!

    Glad I found you and this blog.

    Have an awesome day! Thanks again!

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    1. Hi Luna,

      I’m so glad you found my blog, and enjoyed this article. I really like that quote, because we are really responsible for our future.

      Thank you for your input.

    2. Hi Luna,

      I’m so glad you found my blog, and enjoyed this article. I really like that quote, because we are really responsible for our future.

      Thank you for your input.

  8. Hi Sylviane,
    This is amazing!
    Lovely demo from a lovely background!
    Yes, amazing stories comes out from the mouth of amazing and successful people!!!
    And as you said sad ones will only comes out from such people! LOL
    Yes, whatever it is, it is in our hands!
    Good to read this post
    Keep sharing
    ~ Phil
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