The 3 Key Points of the Law of Attraction: How it Really Works

3 main points about LOA

3 main points about LOA

You’ve been kind of understanding the law of attraction, yet your actual life is still miles away from your dream life.

You are still complaining, criticizing, fussing about things…

If so, it’s only because you’re missing the point. Or should I say the 3 main key points about the law of attraction? And they are crucial points, because if you don’t get these, you just don’t get the law of attraction at all.

Are you also still using statements such as the law of attraction works when you work it, or nice to see that the law of attraction works for you..?

If you are, chances are that you most likely are not fully aware of what the law of attraction is and how it truly works.

Every time you say things like the law of attraction works when you work it or I’m glad the law of attraction worked for you on that one, or anything similar, you are sending signals that you have not fully comprehended the law of attraction.

So if you are someone who has and still use this type of statements when it comes to the law of attraction, I want to clarify a few things for you. So not only you’ll be clearer about the whole thing, but you’ll start sending the right message (vibration) out there instead of confusion that will mess up your point of attraction.

We are going to do this in a form of critical key points that you need to understand once and for all.

Once you do (and only when you do) will you be able to gird your life where you want it to go much better.


Key Point #1: The Law of Attraction has Always been Present in your Life

It’s not because your life’s circumstances have been less than desirable that the law of attraction was NOT present in your life.

This is a very common mistaken belief that many people have.

Long before you ever became aware of the term law of attraction, the law of attraction was present in your life, just like long before you became aware of the term oxygen, your little lungs were becoming full of it.

Whether your life has been triumphant or completely dull, that has been brought on by your point of attraction. And just like we’re breathing unconsciously we are also attracting unconsciously.

Just like when you meditate you become consciously aware of your breathing, it’s when you become aware of your point of attraction that you can understand how and what you are attracting.


Key Point #2: Only by Becoming Aware can you Start Making Choices and Move towards them

The reason why your life seems to be out of control or even slightly off is because you were not aware that whatever might have been, you’ve attracted, from the biggest to the smallest thing.

Many people don’t like to hear that because it makes them feel bad or even mad.

Of course, they’ve attracted those things unconsciously, without even knowing it, and they’re saying, I could never be responsible for this!

Believe me, I know the feeling.

It can be quite upsetting to find out that you’ve attracted to yourself things you wouldn’t have wished to your worst enemy, yet you brought them about into your own life.

Actually, it takes courage to admit it to yourself, maybe even some getting used to for a long while after you’ve accepted that fact.

But the truth of the matter is that the earlier you become aware, the more ahead of the game you will be and the quickest you’ll be able to move forward in your life.

Life IS a game, and the sooner you know the rules, the better armed you’ll be to win that game, which obviously exposes the fact that the less aware you are about the rules, the more risks of losing the game.

I don’t know about you, but I’d rather admit my mistakes and move on towards a brighter future than keep on denying it to my own detriment. Even if those mistakes were totally unconscious.

This is about taking responsibilities all the way, even for what we’ve attracted unconsciously.  But once you do, it’s actually so liberating.


Key Point #3 Start Making Changes in your Thinking Habits Today

Like I said above, you’ve been attracting since before you were born, and obviously, you’ve been attracting unconsciously or otherwise known as subconsciously. But this was due to the fact that you were NOT aware of what was going on under the surface.

As you are becoming more and more aware of how the law of attraction is affecting every moment of your life, you can learn how to literally change your mind over in order to penetrate into your subconscious mind, and twist it in a way that will serve you and your life much better.

The formula is simple:

  • You become aware
  • You transform your thought process
  • You keep on practicing
  • You start experiencing some positive changes
  • You reach a momentum

Now, while I said that this is simple, notice I didn’t say it was easy.  That’s why most people can’t achieve this on their own, and that’s why success coaches are in great demand. Whether it’s business coaches, relationship coaches, energy coaches, you name it… we all do the same thing really.

Personally, I have to say that I am very proud to be able to help my clients achieve that change and momentum in their life if they let me.

But even if it’s only with articles such as this one, my purpose is accomplished.

This is one of my readers said about my last post:

Hi Sylviane
Loved your post. To be honest when a post is as long as yours I do not read to the end. But let say honesty I did this one. I am that guilty one who lots of time I do not take the action. Being busy and putting it off tomorrow and tomorrow never comes. My advise is this to all of your readers: Take Action when your mentor suggests you do this. It will not get done if you don’t act. Thanks so much for this very motivating valuable post. God bless. David

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26 thoughts on “The 3 Key Points of the Law of Attraction: How it Really Works”

  1. Hi, Sylviane

    These three points are so true.

    I believe the second point is most important point for starting the change. Until we accept the presence of mistakes, we will have no reference point to change.

    The third point is supported by the verse 3 John 1:2 in Bible “… you may prosper in all things and be in good health, just as your soul (thinking) prospers (change)” Until our thoughts are more positive, we dare to believe that prosperity and good health will be in here.

    Thanks for the post

    Stella Chiu
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    1. Hi Stella,

      Actually, all 3 key points are important, because they go together. We can’t do away with on or the other.

      Indeed, the new testament part of the Bible refers a whole lot to the law of attraction, it’s just not called like that, but that’s what it is. This universal law has always been with us, and Jesus knew all about it.

      Thank you for coming and for sharing.


  2. Hey Sylviane,

    You’re spot on with this one. We are either unconscious of the law of attraction or we turn a blind eye.

    But once we become aware, we become more responsible of the actions we take. Many will get the help and will stay stagnant by choice and there will be those who will fail their way up into a more balance lifestyle.

    Thanks for sharing Sylviane! Have a grat week ahead!
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    1. Hi Sherman,

      Long time no see, nice to see you here today.

      Yes, for someone like me it’s a bit disconcerting when I hear statements that imply that if you ignore the LOA, the LOA will ignore you, but as you know that’s not the case at all. There’s no such thing as the law of attraction leaving you alone, so to speak, so the more we become aware, the better.

      Thanks for coming and have a fantastic day!


  3. Hi Sylviane,

    A Quite interesting Post. I love this.

    I like the second and third points the most and I agree with that too.

    As you mentioned we should aware of the things we speak and we do. If we concentrate on this definitely it will make good things.

    Thanks for wonderful post.

    Have a great day.
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    1. Hi Vinayakprabu,

      I’m glad you appreciate this type of information, and hope you can apply it to your life for enhancing your life.

      Thanks for coming.


    1. Hi Dinesh,

      However, the movie the secret is a little basic and simplistic, that’s why it confused a lot of people who then said that it didn’t work. The movie the Secret didn’t go enough into details, but the principle was here.

      Thanks for coming.


  4. Hi Sylviane,

    When it comes to the LOA there are so many things that are misunderstood. I am so glad you explained things in a clear concise way.

    I was in the middle of creating something…at trip. I was writing things down (I like to do that so I can see it and it sticks in my brain) I started visualizing. I was on my 8th or 9th day doing this when I slipped off my step and flew to my car.

    Notice the words fly … trip… lol. In my visualization I was sitting in my favorite hotel in Puerto Rico. A man was serving me on the beach. Well my fall hurt my leg and my man David is serving me while I rest my leg up.

    Sometimes we do have to be very careful with the LOA – 🙂

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    1. Hi Donna,

      You made a VERY good and important point here. My mother who was the caretaker and breadwinner of the household and who even had take care of her sister’s business a lot often said that she was tired and wanted people to take of her. Well, the last 7 years of her life she had to have someone to take care of her indeed, as she was sick with a mental disease who prevented her not only to take care of everyone else like she used to, but herself as well.

      Our own words become our own prophecies, so we must watch what we say and think because I tell ya, the universe WILL deliver.

      Thanks so much for your valuable feedback, Donna.

      Have a great week.

  5. Hey Sylviane,

    Life is really considered as game and we must know about its complete rule or aware to win that game. These discussed formula are incredible to achieve goal and success in life. We know very well for any task we need to aware about it for achievement. Regular practicing of any individual work makes its perfect to get momentum. This is absolutely fantastic post and helpful in nature.

    With best regards,

    Amar kumar

  6. Hi, Sylviane,
    Quite an amazing post. the second point is so true…before you’re making a change, you have to be aware that you are responsible for your own life. And here is the tragedy. The majority of people will blame their current situation on everything else but their own deeds. Its the country, the job market, their parents or some other reason. But no! The current outcome in your life is only a result of what you did along the way.

    I find Key #2 as the step were most people fail to reach.
    Thanks Sylviane
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    1. Hi Denis,

      Indeed, most people on the planet will blame their lot in life to exterior factors. Just watch the news and you can figure that out very quickly. The point of the matter is that the law of attraction, while now understood by a very small group of people is at large totally ignored still.

      Thanks for your input.


    1. Hi Dhruv,

      Well it’s hard to truly help someone in a comment reply, especially with so little information from you. Maybe you can browse my blog post or request my 30-minute free consultation.

      Thanks for coming.


  7. Hi Sylviane,

    Great post. I just discovered your blog today and I read 4 posts. That’s a lot for me. 🙂

    The most important thing that makes the law of attraction work is taking action. Many people misinterpret it and they think that if they surround themselves with photos of the car or home they want, then all their desires will become true miraculous. That is not true.

    Thanks for sharing these tips,
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    1. Hi Minuca,

      Just catching up with all my blog comments. Yes, it’s true that in order to attract what we want we need to work along with our visualization. But I do know of many examples where things came while doing nothing as well. So, saying that’s it’s not true, it’s not quite exact though.

    1. Hi Minuca,

      You need to study the law of attraction and you will understand all of it without needing a proof from me or anyone else. Do people have to work hard to attract bad stuff to them? It works both ways. If you have the BELIEF that nothing good and worth it can happen to you without hard work, you will always need to work hard.

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